hi guys,

sorry i havent been around much lately....been serching for a car.

hope you are all well.

while looking for the car i realised there was such a big change in me.

the old me would have let my hubby deal with everything and i would blend into the paintwork.

but the new me accually speaks lol.....i even shocked my hubby !

i went from dealer to dealer....and I enquired about the cars....i also bargined with them and got different deals of all of them.

i finally got my car for €19.000.

which is a big drop from €25.000.

when we closed the deal and came out of the dealers my hubby swung me around and hugged me and told me that he was so proud of how i handled all these professional guys......and got them to drop from 25.000 to 22.000 to 20.000 and eventually i got one to offer me the car for 19.000.

i'm in shock at myself.....i was so confident!
dont know where this new confidence has come from, but i think its from letting go of the dysfunctional family and having loads of time to work on myself.

but whatever caused it...i sure ain't complaining ;-)

love in recovery.
irish

Irish, that's so awesome. You must be really proud of yourself. Keep up the good work.