This is the first time I have been on this site. I found it just by surfing and I am glad that I did.
I have been w/partner for 9 yrs. and it feels like a million. When we first met he did not drink, I didn't know that was because of antibus and then that didn't register. We broke up for a year and have been back together for almost 3, and all of that drinking. I drank w/him for the first year, then I gave it up, couldn't function like that.
Now, I should love him for what he is, my problem I am not drinking, no intimacy- too much drink, I and what I want do not matter and our daughter (8) screamed at him last week about why he had to get do drunk.
Feeling very low and at the end of my sanity and do NOT know what to do.
Where do I go from here?