Full Version: Son on meth
I just found out my son who works 3 days a week at the Salvation Army, Threatned an man who is one of our friends husb. 'Tim' is his name. My son only gets mean when hes on Meth, now I'am scared to death, what can he do here to us or our house. Were going to be gone tomorrow, does he know? Will I come home to a stripped house??? When he drinks hes in 'love' with everyone. but on Meth hes mean, Tim didn't say anything back to him but did say my son was foaming at the mouth, which is how he acted when we got him out of the house. We don't have much the T,V, are old,so are the DVD's, but won't they take anything to sell?? I was going to go drop my husb off,but now I'am scared to leave my house alone, hes mean on that drug he could hurt my animals, which I love very much, strip the house of everything. We don't have jewerly or rare coins, were really a 'middle' class family, not even 'just making it'. Well now that I'am crying I can't se the screan. OH he told Tim ..watch your back I have friends in high places...BS he has no one, none of his friends want anything to do with him, cause hes so mean on Meth. Sorry I better go, My husb is sitting out there like a 'dirty dishrag' but if we came home & everything was gone, he would blame me. My Son knowes I take meds for my back,which I think he would look for first, so I have to get them in a bag to take...o *H* I probley won't go. Hes free causing trouble & I'am on 'house arrest', whats wrong here? I won't have time to see if any one answered my post, but I'll probley be up all night, so I will get online early.Thanks so much for listening, I knoe I went on & on, but have to get my meds together or stay home...I don't know what to do. Maybe I'am worring for nothing, I do think he has to work tomorrow. I'll post when or if I go to let every one know, but now I'am scared to death, sitting here crying for what. I'll talk to everyone later. Hugs to all, Pegi
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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QUOTE(pakasfriend @ Sep 23 2005, 02:04 PM)
QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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QUOTE(pakasfriend @ Sep 23 2005, 02:26 PM)
QUOTE(pakasfriend @ Sep 23 2005, 02:04 PM)
QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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QUOTE(pakasfriend @ Sep 23 2005, 02:28 PM)
QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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QUOTE(pakasfriend @ Sep 23 2005, 02:28 PM)
QUOTE(pakasfriend @ Sep 23 2005, 02:28 PM)
QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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Hi Old Timer, Thanks for your kind words, they really made me fell better. Yes money is a problem now, but this is the second time we had the sheriffs throw him out,no it doesn't get easier, seeing him around town doesn't get easier,all of it doesn't get easier. He did his 90 days in the Salvation Army program,so I was told he has a foundation, he can make what ever turn he wants.
I understand someone is upset cause I said something about my Husb. having cancer, that this is an AA..Al-non group & we should stay with the topic, I told about my husb & his Cancer,to give everyone an idea why my Husb. just didn't pick him up by his belt & toss him out the door. I have been in a few Cancer groups to help me deal with his Cancer, I'am older,but not that old...well so far I haven't mixed my groups up yet...LOL
If this mail seem to go to the wrong place or person sorry about that,I'am still trying to figure out how this group works. I am Computer Dumb, but I'am self taught with many peoples help.
Yes throwing him out is hard for me, I was homeless as a child twice,so yes I know, but we at least had 'the Corvair', but my sister always got the extra blanket. This was durning a few Chcago winters, I am still mad at her for that...LOL So with 'the roof' falling on me, I am trying to keep everyone & everything together, well I am doing my best. Trying to keeep the stress in the house down as much as possible, so my husb. can heal, but tonight is MY NIGHT. I'am taking the night off I need to de-stress..[.is that a word?] myself, I need time for ME, so your kind words helped me alot, please answer again & again & again....LOL
So I haven't eatin all day, the rest of them can find whatever to eat,MOM is off tonight. Hugs, Pegi
I understand someone is upset cause I said something about my Husb. having cancer, that this is an AA..Al-non group & we should stay with the topic, I told about my husb & his Cancer,to give everyone an idea why my Husb. just didn't pick him up by his belt & toss him out the door. I have been in a few Cancer groups to help me deal with his Cancer, I'am older,but not that old...well so far I haven't mixed my groups up yet...LOL
If this mail seem to go to the wrong place or person sorry about that,I'am still trying to figure out how this group works. I am Computer Dumb, but I'am self taught with many peoples help.
Yes throwing him out is hard for me, I was homeless as a child twice,so yes I know, but we at least had 'the Corvair', but my sister always got the extra blanket. This was durning a few Chcago winters, I am still mad at her for that...LOL So with 'the roof' falling on me, I am trying to keep everyone & everything together, well I am doing my best. Trying to keeep the stress in the house down as much as possible, so my husb. can heal, but tonight is MY NIGHT. I'am taking the night off I need to de-stress..[.is that a word?] myself, I need time for ME, so your kind words helped me alot, please answer again & again & again....LOL
So I haven't eatin all day, the rest of them can find whatever to eat,MOM is off tonight. Hugs, Pegi
Morning Pegi!
Glad you took time to yourself
Btw avoid HALT
H - Hungry
A - Anger
L - Loneliness
T- Tired
this four thins really can drive us insane and take away our energy, as results we end up not able to be of help to no one, including ourselves and our beloved ones. I was there, thas why today I know how important it is to take care of myself, because I love, and my beloveds need a health person. I need to take care of me. LOL It was supposed to be obvious, but I spent years putting everybody elses needs as priorities and forgetting myself. I became HALT and unable to help them.
Now I am back to first things first.
Make sure you dont spend a day without eat.
((((((((()))))))))
Thanks for being here.
Love
Glad you took time to yourself
Btw avoid HALT
H - Hungry
A - Anger
L - Loneliness
T- Tired
this four thins really can drive us insane and take away our energy, as results we end up not able to be of help to no one, including ourselves and our beloved ones. I was there, thas why today I know how important it is to take care of myself, because I love, and my beloveds need a health person. I need to take care of me. LOL It was supposed to be obvious, but I spent years putting everybody elses needs as priorities and forgetting myself. I became HALT and unable to help them.
Now I am back to first things first.
Make sure you dont spend a day without eat.
((((((((()))))))))
Thanks for being here.
Love
QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 24 2005, 07:50 AM)
Morning Pegi!
Glad you took time to yourself
Btw avoid HALT
H - Hungry
A - Anger
L - Loneliness
T- Tired
this four thins really can drive us insane and take away our energy, as results we end up not able to be of help to no one, including ourselves and our beloved ones. I was there, thas why today I know how important it is to take care of myself, because I love, and my beloveds need a health person. I need to take care of me. LOL It was supposed to be obvious, but I spent years putting everybody elses needs as priorities and forgetting myself. I became HALT and unable to help them.
Now I am back to first things first.
Make sure you dont spend a day without eat.
((((((((()))))))))
Thanks for being here.
Love
Glad you took time to yourself
Btw avoid HALT
H - Hungry
A - Anger
L - Loneliness
T- Tired
this four thins really can drive us insane and take away our energy, as results we end up not able to be of help to no one, including ourselves and our beloved ones. I was there, thas why today I know how important it is to take care of myself, because I love, and my beloveds need a health person. I need to take care of me. LOL It was supposed to be obvious, but I spent years putting everybody elses needs as priorities and forgetting myself. I became HALT and unable to help them.
Now I am back to first things first.
Make sure you dont spend a day without eat.
((((((((()))))))))
Thanks for being here.
Love
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QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 24 2005, 07:50 AM)
Morning Pegi!
Glad you took time to yourself
Btw avoid HALT
H - Hungry
A - Anger
L - Loneliness
T- Tired
this four thins really can drive us insane and take away our energy, as results we end up not able to be of help to no one, including ourselves and our beloved ones. I was there, thas why today I know how important it is to take care of myself, because I love, and my beloveds need a health person. I need to take care of me. LOL It was supposed to be obvious, but I spent years putting everybody elses needs as priorities and forgetting myself. I became HALT and unable to help them.
Now I am back to first things first.
Make sure you dont spend a day without eat.
((((((((()))))))))
Thanks for being here.
Love
Glad you took time to yourself
Btw avoid HALT
H - Hungry
A - Anger
L - Loneliness
T- Tired
this four thins really can drive us insane and take away our energy, as results we end up not able to be of help to no one, including ourselves and our beloved ones. I was there, thas why today I know how important it is to take care of myself, because I love, and my beloveds need a health person. I need to take care of me. LOL It was supposed to be obvious, but I spent years putting everybody elses needs as priorities and forgetting myself. I became HALT and unable to help them.
Now I am back to first things first.
Make sure you dont spend a day without eat.
((((((((()))))))))
Thanks for being here.
Love
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QUOTE(looking for @ Sep 22 2005, 07:41 PM)
hi Pegi,
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
Hope it is all fine in your home and pets and that your husband is recovering well.
((((((((()))))))))
I think what is so difficult although you explained about the limitations about money, it is not really about get $30. It is just too hard to take this action. But if he is a treat to you and yours, please do it. You have right to live, to live in peace, to feel confortable, to have joy. You doing with a hard to fight disease, that is your husband cancer, and you have your own conditions. You have done what you can. Let him , son, go and he will find sobriety when he is ready. Till then, it is ok to protect yourself and your other beloved ones.
Love
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Hi old timer...well it didn't work, I got some rest, but I wanted to be selfish 7 have all night to myself, I deserved it!! I'am going to try again tonight, the show 'Cold Case' is one I like, my T.V. is usually on but I hardley ever sit & watch something, I think it comes from being left alone well with my sister as a child. But I love that show,so does the rest of 'them' so at least I get an hr. to myself. Even though were in Calif. were working with 'Katrina' pets. so I 'did' have 14 bottle kittens, form 2wks. to 4 wks. a friend took 4 of them tonight. I run a small non-profit Animal rescue group, thats why I keep it small, I want only people who want to 'help' the animals,not do nothing,but be out in front when the paper is here,or the T.V. cammers, for the pat on the backs...took me over 30yrs to learn that. But our volunters know how much stress I'am under at this time & as always are coming through, I have seen the 'bad' but now know how to weed out the bad, I love our Volunters, They know I'am a 'painer' [Chronic Pain] so they do alot & so do the coyotes. Cause I sleep only 2-3 hrs. at a time, I heard this noise, those bratts had a few bags of Cat Food food open, eating away, even thought next to them was a pallet of dog food, I just shut the door & let them at it. See they build condos on the coyotes homes,so all these people could have beautiful views, next to the tran station,so the poor coyotes have no place to get food, they probley will be back tonight,I figure at least I saved a few 'Fluffys' See we were collection food for 'Katrina' this just happened to come in later, so I was going to share it with the other Animal groups, now I think I'll keep a pallet & find a place to feed them in the hills. Close to * so I want to get my ice water ready & ice cream with hot fudge on it & watch 'Cold Case' ...still have cubberts to clean out since my sister game her old dishes,I have my old ones to pack. So Thanks for your kind words, wish I knew an easier way to get on this site, most of the time its by a pain for me, don't know why I can't get it, but get my mail box full of messages...or the answers & I'am probley on the wrong site anyway. *p.m. here so I'll talk to you later,thanks for your help. Love, Pegi
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