Online Alano Club Discussion Forums > Getting out after 20 years

chloe7

Nov 21 2005, 04:57 PM

Hi,
I have been married to an alocholic for 20 years,we moved to Costa Rica for him,he wanted it,soon after the plane landed he said he wanted a divorce and took all the money out of our account ,took my kids passports and said get out,it is all my fault that he is miserable,So it has been ayear that I have been sitting here hating him and tired of it,Today I called my mother and have the passports and am leaving him,I feel scared,but can not live with him anymore.

halfwolf

Nov 21 2005, 09:56 PM

QUOTE(chloe7 @ Nov 21 2005, 06:57 PM)

Hi,
I have been married to an alocholic for 20 years,we moved to Costa Rica for him,he wanted it,soon after the plane landed he said he wanted a divorce and took all the money out of our account ,took my kids passports and said get out,it is all my fault that he is miserable,So it has been ayear that I have been sitting here hating him and tired of it,Today I called my mother and have the passports and am leaving him,I feel scared,but can not live with him anymore.

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good for you, you need to start your own life, you have the right to be happy just like anyone else, just ask your higher power for guidance and let go, let GOD

His will-not mine

Mar 19 2006, 02:11 PM

QUOTE(chloe7 @ Nov 21 2005, 04:57 PM) [snapback]1152[/snapback]

Hi,
I have been married to an alocholic for 20 years,we moved to Costa Rica for him,he wanted it,soon after the plane landed he said he wanted a divorce and took all the money out of our account ,took my kids passports and said get out,it is all my fault that he is miserable,So it has been ayear that I have been sitting here hating him and tired of it,Today I called my mother and have the passports and am leaving him,I feel scared,but can not live with him anymore.

Remember that God will take care of you. He will and already is.